People come into your life for a reason, a season or a
lifetime. When you
know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is
in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have
expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you
with
guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or
spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the
reason
you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or
at an
inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring
the
relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk
away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must
realize
is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is
done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move
on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has
come to
share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make
you
laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They
usually
give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But
only
for a season .
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must
build
upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to
accept
the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in
all
other relationships and areas of your
life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a
season
or a lifetime.